Deanna Lueckenotte is the author of "Alzheimer's Days Gone By: For Those Caring for Their Loved Ones." She plans to continue publishing books related to Alzheimer's and caregivers. She would also like to continue her education by obtaining her doctorate in geriatrics.

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Has anyone started anyone on Donepezil Hcl Tabs 5 mg for memory loss/dementia?


Think about what your loved one's wishes are in regards to medications. For example: my family knows to not give me dementia specific... see more

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Mom with dementia doesn't recognize my dad who's her primary caregiver. Anyone experience this?


To try to assist with the fear your mom has of your dad try to figure out what is triggering the fear. Is it a certain time of day,... see more

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Is a big community better for Alzheimer's care?


No matter the size it is important to research your choices in your area as well as visit in person. During your visit observe how the... see more

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Should I correct my mother when she repeats questions?


Lots of great responses to your question about repeating same questions and such over and over again. It is very taxing on the caregiver... see more

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Why can't my father remember things anymore?


Jeanne is correct with her response to your question. It is called retrogenesis. Someone with Alzheimer's typically will revert back... see more

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All the doctor told us was that my mom was diagnosed with dementia. What do we do now?


I apologize that the doctor did not sit and talk with you through hearing the diagnosis of dementia. Could you tell me a bit more about... see more

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Is extreme anxiety common with elderly or is it early dementia?


It is definitely a balancing act! It is hard to say what may be causing the anxiety. It could be a combination of things. My advice is... see more

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We just moved my in-laws with dementia and now they want to visit their old home. Should we let them go back a...


You have a great deal on your plate and I send you positive thoughts! In regards to the mother in law with dementia and wanting to go visit... see more

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Is loss of focus and short term memory always a sign of Alzheimer’s and dementia or can it be a sign of other...


I would line up a doctor's visit. There could be many reversible causes for his symptons you have discussed. Depression, medication... see more

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Why is it that your loved one with Alzheimer’s and Dementia can temporarily speak perfectly when they get scar...


What I have noticed over the years is that social setting words and cues stay intact through most if not all the disease process. It may... see more

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My 91-year-old dad was just transferred to lock down at his assisted living home. If it is to expensive can I...


The answer is yes! The above answers are great! So glad to be surrounded by so many great people to help others. Check with your local... see more

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I'm on Namenda. Will it really help?


I can not agree more with all the advice and knowledge already received. Keep the communication lines open with your wife about what your... see more

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What do we do with a parent who believes we are poisioning her with doctor prescribed medicine?


Talk with your doctor to make sure the medicine she is currently taking can be crushed up. If not ask if there is a comparable medication... see more

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My mom is suffering from depression and has not left her room in over a year. Is there anything I can do to ge...


Wow! You are in a tough situation. I am guessing if she has not left her room much over the past year she also has not been to her... see more

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My dad has dementia and keeps saying he "feels like he is not here". What is he trying to tell me?


I agree with Carol's comment posted above. Your dad is trying to communicate that he knows he is not truly who he remembers. In... see more

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My dad has dementia and keeps saying he "feels like he is not here". What is he trying to tell me?


Sending luck and prayers your way Christine! You are a blessing for your mom!
Deanna

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My mom has Alzheimer's and she thinks pictures of her grandkids are real kids. How should we respond when she...


When caring for someone with Alzheimer's always let go of your reality and enter their reality wherever they may be. If your loved one... see more

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My 83-year-old uncle has dementia and the doctor says it's getting worse. What is dementia and what are the sy...


Both these comments are filled with great resources for you. Wishing you strength, courage and happiness with your loved one on this... see more

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I take care of both of my parents and have Power of Attorney for my dad. The lawyer said I didn't need POA for...


I agree with other comments. You will need a POA for both your parents. The other comments are giving you very sound advice. Their are... see more

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Am I liable if my mother doesn't go to the doctor for her medical condition if I am the caregiver?


I agree with the comments of others left thus far. If you feel your mom is in an unsafe situation and you are unable to get her to change... see more

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