Mom had a stroke which left her left side paralyzed she lived with us for two years prior she is now in a care home which takes great care of her she complains about everything and wants to come home we cannot take care of her due to our own health problems hiring a caregiver is over seven thousand a month which we can't afford it's getting to. The point I don't what to visit I always leave feeling quilty and sad about the situation it's just impossible for us to bring her home in her condition but she's very insistent even though its impossible due to the fact she can't walk on her own and with my husbands disability and mine we can't do it so what should I do?
Is there another family member, friend, minister, social worker that could talk to her and help her understand she is where she needs to be at this point? Is she able to understand your health issues?
Best wishes!