Can extreme stress cause dementia?

Extreme stress or depression can cause dementia like symptoms referred to as pseudodementia. Conditions like depression, vitamin B deficiency, hypothyroidism, medications interaction, can all cause pseudodementia. These conditions are treatable. However, it is difficult to differentiate true dementia from pseudo. A physical workup by a clinician, including a brain scan, can determine if the symptoms are truly dementia or pseudodementia. Treatment for pseudodemntia is usually some kind of therapy such as CBT.

Pseudodemenita does not cause degeneration of the brain, whereas dementia does. Actually, it's not the dementia itself that causes the degeneration, it's the disease that manifests itself in dementia symptoms that cause the brain to degenerate. It's important to determine the cause of dementia to properly treat or care for.

Your mom certainly exhibits dementia symptoms. An appt with a neurologist, neurophsycologist or gerontologist needs to be made for a proper evaluation.

dear jaime,
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hug!!

i hope you’re ok!!

the last cancelled surgery...you said she was on the operating table.

did she get anaesthetics? it’s possible. maybe also other drugs?

this can cause dementia.

i know of an elderly loved one...
every time the loved one goes to hospital...they must give some drugs...the loved one comes back home with worse dementia, and slurred speech. then after a few weeks, the loved one is better.

the example i know, the loved one already has dementia.

anaesthetics is known to potentially cause, or worsen, dementia - sometimes temporarily, sometimes permanently.

your “cousin” example is worrying.
the loved one i know, says similar things, but is better now.

i hope your mother will be ok!! hug!!!! courage!!

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Severe prolonged stress can certainly cause PTSD, and intense unrelieved periods of continuing stress (like pandemics, maybe?) can cause negative changes in overall functioning.

It sounds as though she’s under a medical doctor’s care. Can you start with a thorough physical?

Some of the behaviors you mention are not terribly unusual, but having an expert opinion can help when you keep an eye on things for the next 3-6 months and see what direction the outward signs are leading in.

Start a “wellness” list and jot down what you consider unusual responses and/or typical Mom stuff. It will help you to keep your observations more objective too.

Have you considered that this is actually a cognitive decline due to dementia of some type?
Often people with dementia can "hide" it or work around it for years before that becomes impossible and others start noticing the decline.
Conditions like high blood pressure can cause little strokes leading to what would be called vascular dementia.
She should be evaluated by a neurologist or a neuropsychologist. this should be done before surgery as the anesthesia used for the surgery combined with dementia can cause a cognitive decline that may or may not resolve.

Your situation is much like mine. I don’t have a medical degree but I will say that every time my mom has had stress which we try to avoid that in any conversations, or fallen, her mental health seems to decline. She also sleeps a lot and has no appetite. My mom was diagnosed with vascular dementia three years ago. Since then I have researched any and all things related. I do have a brother that lives out of state that is very good at playing out of sight, out of mind. He’s the golden child, calls twice a week, scoops in about twice a year, takes everyone to nice dinners, then leaves. Okay, vented there! Anyway, my answer to your question is yes, I believe so. One of the most frustrating aspects about dementia is that there are no answers. Each person is different and therefore medical experts cannot predict nor provide me with answers. I am sorry you are put in this situation. It’s hard to watch.

I would definitely make sure she doesn't have a UTI infection. They can make the elderly VERY confused. My MIL had one and was talking in numbers!

I'd start with her PCP have him/her do a cognitive assessment and go from there and if necessary get a referral to a neurologist who specializes in dementia and related conditions.

Extreme stress can cause dementia like reactions and dementia can be in itself stressful. You stated your mother has never been emotionally strong, believes in magical thinking, a bit forgetful and loopy. This behavior can also hide her dementia as it could appear to be her normal behavior until it gets more extreme. Was your mother under anesthesia when the last surgery cancelled. Anesthesia can have an adverse affect on elderly brains and can take longer to clear the system.

Have her Dr check her out and good luck.

If your mother does end up having surgery, speak to the surgeon prior to surgery about her mental symptoms. She may not actually have "dementia" but some sort of pseudodementia, as mentioned previously.

Some types of anesthesia may aggravate dementia-like symptoms which may not be easily reversed. If the surgeon is made aware of her history, he can assure that the anesthesia she receives is the least harmful in this respect.

I’m not a mental health expert but I have experienced trauma so I am just sharing knowledge from experience, but I strongly urge you to consult with a professional.
as a first generation immigrant I have experienced the trauma of fleeing a country under martial law and my parents experienced war and poverty so I have witnessed the effects of stress and PTSD, however, these factors do not necessarily lead to dementia, from what I’ve seen. In fact, such stressors can build resilience, especially if you are able to channel the energy into productive work and if you have spiritual strength. I think in your mother’s case her cognitive decline may be due to her denial, abd the problems piling up. Ironically, her dependence on others to make decisions for her May lead to this, because she is not exercising her mental faculties and has become too passive. Use it or lose it. This is why games, music, any new skill, is encouraged for the elderly. Her lack of confidence in her own abilities and enpowerment may have led to a mild depression.

High blood pressure can absolutely cause confusion. So can overmedication/reaction to medication, kidney failure, lung failure, stress and many other serious health problems.

Not all these can be resolved, but some can.

Update her glasses and hearing aids. If her senses are not as clear, her thinking could get muddied exponentially. This could help explain the remote control situation, but regardless, if eyesight and hearing are as clear as possible, it will help her.

Check her medications by reading the pharmacy printouts or looking them up online. Look for bad drug interactions, warnings and side effects (confusion is often listed). Never take her off any drug without the supervision of a doctor. My mom was on drugs that had a confusion side effect and she was on some combinations that were strictly prohibited or warned against. Some medications build up in your body over time (so the causal effect may not be obvious). Mom was much healthier and happier (and so was I!) when we got this resolved with her doctors. Getting her weaned off the wrong medications (mostly added one at a time by her former PCP) was a miracle.

If she is taking any specialized medications, she should be seeing specialized doctors ... for each separate health problem, if possible. If your mom isn’t seeing a cardiologist, find a good one. I would avoid doctors close to retirement. My mom took high blood pressure medication for years but was never treated by a cardiologist. Once she saw a cardiologist, her medications were fine tuned and her health improved. (We were told her heart meds were still used but outdated).

General practitioners are like general contractors. They are qualified to oversee and coordinate a project, but they might not do the best job installing plumbing, electrical wiring and bricklaying.

In picking any kind of doctor, especially for patients with complicated health problems, look at-
(1) medical school/residency ranking (the best medical schools and residency programs accept generally the most qualified candidates who also had the highest test scores);
(2) undergraduate college ranking
(3)extra qualifications/certifications and specializations
(4) peer physician ranking and lastly
(5) patient reviews- read all the bad ones. If your loved one has a complicated medical situation make sure the providers are all medical doctors (not DOs or nurse practitioners).

Neurologists were not particularly helpful for us -so I wouldn’t put that specialty at the top of the priority list-we tried a couple different and highly recommended ones- they just read Mom long fact patterns and played “memory games.” We knew there was a problem we didn’t need that type of evaluation to know something was off. They just wanted to slap on some more prescriptions (some of which interacted with some of the other medications and later were eliminated by other doctors). Mom would leave feeling humiliated and sad. The stress from these visits made things worse and needed their own mini-recoveries!

When your mom is “off,” try de stressing her environment (to lower her blood pressure and clear her thinking). Put on soft music and low lights, hug her. Prepare her favorite foods from her childhood. Be careful not to scold or criticize because that can impact her BP.

if she makes errors, don’t be critical as that could stifle her desire to communicate.

After you try these suggestions and others, if you find that she has not improved, try your best to accept her for who she is, get help however works best -either in her home or out (so she is safe) and try not to show her any disappointment if she makes a mistake.