I took Effexor for 4.5 years but discontinued it due to negative side effects. I've been doing research online and hear nothing but bad reviews for every single SSRI that exists it seems.
I have a Dr.'s appt. scheduled for next week and would like to have some possible positive feedback on something before I go so I at least could be armed with information before he just throws any pill at me.
Has anyone out there had a good experience with one. One that causes minimal weight gain, no suicidal thoughts, doesn't cause insomnia, etc. etc.?
Unfortunately, they are not fast acting so trial and error can take months and be very frustrating. Don’t give up, though. Once you find one that works, it can be a life changer.
Make sure you are working with a psychiatrist or a neurologist who knows pharmacology. Don’t be like my sister who got her prescription from her OB/GYN!
Good luck!
I don't have health insurance and although we do have government healthcare here I don't think it covers psychiatric care. So while I agree it would be better to be prescribed something by a psychiatrist it may not be a viable option.
I'm still undecided about the antidepressant but you've all given me food for thought.
By the way, I did try the ashwagandha and it was sort of helping but then I noticed it was causing blurry vision so I stopped it and the blurriness stopped so it was definitely that.
Anyways, I've got to think about this more and make a decision one way or the other whether I try another pill or keep toughing it out on my own. I've been praying about it. God will give me the answer.😊
I am a living miracle. I am an empath intuitive and was on 325 mgs of Effexor for more than 10 years. Oh... the weight gain! Fast forward to June 2019. Life was going really wonky... work, looking after my mom, my living situation. I found a wonderful new doctor! What a god send! I had read long ago on another forum that a woman successfully got off the Effexor, bead by bead and then transitioned to Prozac. So, I talked to my doctor and he guided me. Over a period of time, I was released from the clutches of Effexor and am now living beautifully with only 40 mgs of prozac a day. I dropped 25 pounds! I am an intuitive who meditates and lives a very conscious lifestyle. Another helpful component during all this, is that I also took cannabis. It is legal here in Canada. I floated effortlessly through all the storms at that time and found such deep insight during my meditations. What a huge miracle! Now I am helping others do the same. I send you love and light. Bless you!
Interesting you should mention the Prozac cause I have been debating whether or not to go on that.
Whereabouts in Canada are you?
I gather from your post you don't have much confidence in your doctor. Perhaps trying a different one would help. I don't think any dr is just going to throw a pill at you, For any patient, finding the right anti-d is a trial and error process. Every anti-d, indeed every medication, has negative side effects. That's life.
I am delighted with the anti-d I am on which deals with fibromyalgia pain and also has a very slight anti-d effect. At this low dose I don't have problems with side effects.
Wishing you the best results for your current search.
I have much sympathy for you and your ongoing depression and anxiety. Prayers for a good solution. ((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))
I'm not going to start till after Christmas though cause I know the side effects might be bothersome for the first week or two.
Thx everyone for the advice and your experiences. I'll let you know how it goes.
i don’t have depression, I have ME/CFS ( don’t make or utilize energy) but in the past drs refused to accept the illness and wrongly prescribed antidepressants. Lexapro made me suicidal but since I didn’t have the chemical imbalances of depression, it may not affect someone with depression the same way.
I wish you well --
In conjunction with therapy, Wellbutrin completely changed my life!
The relief was immense. I discovered sides of myself that had been hidden by the depression.
I started painting, quilting, jewelry making!
I felt happy. Interested in life and people. I actually felt like a kid again!
It wasn't a feeling of being high. It just felt "normal". Stable. No more lowest of low feelings. No more guilt from feeling unmotivated all the time. No more wanting to die.
I am 56, and have been on Wellbutrin for 15 years. There is no way I could have coped with assisting my elderly parents, and dealing with my Mom's dementia, had I been depressed. No way.
You will probably have to find an anti-depressant that works for you. Initially, I tried Zoloft, and felt like I was having an out of body experience.
The Wellbutrin took awhile to start working...like a month. I'm thankful I hung in there. And my husband did too.
Don't let people who do not understand what depression feels like to dictate your choices.
I wish you all the best. Life is tough, but it can be so sweet, as well.
I have my Prozac here but haven't taken it yet. Waiting for some things to resolve in my life first. Sick cat, etc.
1. About 20 years ago my husband was diagnosed with depression and prescribed Zoloft. It worked very well, although his behaviour was still a bit strange at times. After about 3 years he could not see his usual GP to get a new script, the GPs partner said my husband did not need the drug, refused a script, said he would be fine. Within a couple of weeks my husband was spiralling out of control. In fact, he was suicidal. His regular GP was angry this had happened, and put him straight back onto Zoloft, and referred him to a psychiatrist. Cutting a very long story short, it transpired that my husband is bi polar, which means very deep depressions but with manic spikes not as marked. Apart from medication there is still a need for behaviour modification. Regular exercise, little to no alcohol, regular and plenty of sleep, routine, routine, routine. That little white pill has been magic but should be stopped only gradually.
2. My sister suffered very much from anxiety and depression. Her GP prescribed Zoloft, she was great, but periodically she could not afford to fill her script, did not tell anyone, just went off the drug. She went into this endless spiral of taking the drug and being fine, then not taking the drug and deteriorating. Each time she went off it, she went downhill quicker than the previous occasion; each time she went back on the drug it took longer to take effect. Zoloft works for her and when she cannot afford a script she knows we will pay without judging her.
3. A cousin's wife suffered from post-partum depression for 12 months, was put onto Zoloft, it did its magic. When she fell pregnant she went off the drug against medical advice, went downhill, was deeply depressed before she even gave birth. Following the birth she begged to be given the drug again and hey presto, magic. It did help to have a calmer second child but that does not account for the immediate about face.
4. A friend had school aged children, for no reason fell into depression to the extent she could not raise herself off the lounge or bed to even feed her children, shop, do housework. Zoloft kicked in very quickly, tickety boo! Has not looked back and that has to be 20 years ago.
None of the above gained weight on Zoloft. Whether it is the nature of the drug or the positive effects of regular exercise and proper meals is debatable. I asked my husband how he would feel if he put on weight using the drug. He said give him the drug any day. After all these years he still recalls the depths of despair he experienced, and he said he would put up with weight rather than go there again.
In brief, anti depressive medication needs to be accompanied by a modification of behaviour and lifestyle. Eat well, exercise regularly, have a very good daily routine. Steer clear of anything that might upset your psyche. Toxic friends, social media, dark movies, alcohol etc. Spend time in the fresh air and sunshine, but above all, find an empathetic person to talk to, preferably someone who has already travelled the path of depression. It is a bit like an alcoholic needing to speak to a dry alcoholic. They do not judge.
I'm wondering if the irritability is normal and will go away. I know its early to be concerned but I've read that irritability is not normal. Has anyone on here had this experience?