I'm at a loss on what to do. My "sick" mother's sister is making my mom paranoid by filling her head with lies. Constantly telling her that I, her own daughter, is no good. She tells my mom to hide her money and car from me. She tells her I'm drug addict and turns everything around to a negative. This sister of hers is jealous of our relationship as she is estranged from both her children. It's becoming a major concern. I need help on how to deal with this.
If you wind up moving mother to an ALF Memory Care, what's to stop her sister from calling her THERE? Having POA isn't going to gain you any headway on this particular subject either, I'm afraid. Nor will the police........what can they do, exactly? If you have lots of threatening texts, why that could be useful. But if all you have are texts saying that you are a drug addict, or trying to poison your mother, that's not grounds for any criminal action against your Aunt. In fact, that may get YOU investigated instead.
It's going to be up to your mother to say No More with her sister. She will have to reach the point where SHE doesn't want to hear from her anymore before she stops taking her calls or agrees to block her number. I really think that's the truth here, like it or not.
Wishing you the best of luck!
What about telling her a white lie, like your mom’s phone is broken and she can call you if she needs to check on your mom. That should stop her from calling!