Mom is on hospice in assisted living. She refuses to take all of her meds. So now shes hallucinating, angry, paranoid, etc. She tells me things that are so unbelievable, like people shooting guns at her, ducks being let loose in her room. Then she tells me things that could possibly be happening, like catheter is leaking & her room smells like urine, they aren't giving her breathing treatments but once a day, etc. I have talked to the nurse at facilities & she has shown me signed charts of when they gave her breathing treatments. How can I make sure that shes really being treated well, when I can't get in to assisted living to check because of COVID?
It is very hard, when you cannot go check due to Covid.