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Prescribing meds for anxiety, depression and agitation is a very common treatment for dementia patients. Dementia robs people of their abilities to use reason and logic, their sense of time and space and memory, and therefore judgment. They are no longer able to bring themselves around to a "better" mental state... they don't have the tools to do it anymore. Therefore, it is merciful to help them with this, otherwise they will be wracked with anxiety all day long. It may take a few weeks to find the right meds at the right dosage. But once the medical staff figures it out, it can be very helpful (although not perfect).
I'm not sure of the medication itself but if she is having challenging behaviors, then having her put on a med that calms her down and makes her less challenging is a good thing.
From the internet: "What is Depakote? Depakote affects chemicals in the body that may be involved in causing seizures. Depakote is used to treat various types of seizure disorders. This medicine is sometimes used together with other seizure medications. Depakote tablets and capsules are used to treat seizures in people with epilepsy who are at least 10 years old. The tablets are sometimes used together with other seizure medications. Depakote tablets are also used in adults to prevent migraine headaches, or to treat manic episodes related to bipolar disorder (manic depression)..............................."
It goes on. The internet is your friend in researching drugs, what they are, how they work, what they are given for, and what side effects are.
As with so many drugs now, many that were created to treat certain conditions (in this case seizures) end up being good for other conditions, or USED at least, for other conditions. Witness that the drugs that are used to treat diabetes are now being used for weight loss, leading to them THINKING that they are ALSO helping also with cholesterol and on and on and on. Studies are ongoing.
The military industrial complex's REAL honey is the drug industry. Drugs are passed out like candy from the time we are toddlers until we pass (too late) at 100. What can I say. We are living longer. Are we living happier? Anyones guess; anyone's opinion.
Now to your individual case. You tell us that your mother is suffering from some "challenging" behaviors". It is my hope that if an MD put her on this medication they are specialized in neuro-psyc? Most drugs given to our seniors in care are given to keep them calmer, quieter, happier. That sort of thing. Often they give "drug cocktails" (someone said they "hate that word" but it is a fact) and honestly the best way to know if they are working is if/when they work. Or do not. So questions back at you. Are you MPOA? Have you discussed reasons for this medication with prescribing MD? Have you noticed any positive or negative responses to this drug? Have you discussed with the facility?
Good luck, Kathy. I wish you well. I hope you will update us as you go on.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
"What is Depakote?
Depakote affects chemicals in the body that may be involved in causing seizures. Depakote is used to treat various types of seizure disorders. This medicine is sometimes used together with other seizure medications.
Depakote tablets and capsules are used to treat seizures in people with epilepsy who are at least 10 years old. The tablets are sometimes used together with other seizure medications.
Depakote tablets are also used in adults to prevent migraine headaches, or to treat manic episodes related to bipolar disorder (manic depression)..............................."
It goes on. The internet is your friend in researching drugs, what they are, how they work, what they are given for, and what side effects are.
As with so many drugs now, many that were created to treat certain conditions (in this case seizures) end up being good for other conditions, or USED at least, for other conditions. Witness that the drugs that are used to treat diabetes are now being used for weight loss, leading to them THINKING that they are ALSO helping also with cholesterol and on and on and on. Studies are ongoing.
The military industrial complex's REAL honey is the drug industry. Drugs are passed out like candy from the time we are toddlers until we pass (too late) at 100. What can I say. We are living longer. Are we living happier? Anyones guess; anyone's opinion.
Now to your individual case. You tell us that your mother is suffering from some "challenging" behaviors". It is my hope that if an MD put her on this medication they are specialized in neuro-psyc?
Most drugs given to our seniors in care are given to keep them calmer, quieter, happier. That sort of thing. Often they give "drug cocktails" (someone said they "hate that word" but it is a fact) and honestly the best way to know if they are working is if/when they work. Or do not.
So questions back at you.
Are you MPOA?
Have you discussed reasons for this medication with prescribing MD?
Have you noticed any positive or negative responses to this drug?
Have you discussed with the facility?
Good luck, Kathy. I wish you well. I hope you will update us as you go on.