Account is under her control unless she loses capacity. My father has been diagnosed with dementia and lives with mum who is failing fast. Her spending is off the scale and Dad has not the strength of will to object. I have POA with limited power and my solicitor says I have to apply for Office of the Public Guardian. However I need to prove some mental decline to achieve this, I approached her Doctor yesterday who did not give me confidence that he was interested.
I only care that they can be secure.