She has no guardianship. Will not allow my Mom to visit/home. I filed for petition of guardianship for my Mom but my sister has POA with a forged signature and the nursing home will not allow my mother to visit me or for me to take her home with me without her approval. She's been in the nursing home since October 2014 because my sister's place of residence was closed down by the city - inhabitable. I lost the petition due to a forged POA that was ruled valid. I am appealing, .but how do I get my mother home as bed locks have been left off of her bed, under staffed, no therapy with stroke, mother losing weight rapidly, and osteoarthritis? She's 86 with good vitals.but she is wheel chair bound but refused access to the city or myself...holding her against her will.
Nobody blames you for not knowing that!
If you'd like to discuss the issue with your own mom, I suggest you start your own new question thread. It will be seen by more people that way.
Welcome to the forum!
I'm sorry that you've not always got the support you should have either.
Hope things have turned a positive corner for you, but if you need someone to listen message me and I'll try. Lucy
My Mom needs us to stay on good terms. God has brought us this far and He will take us further in the future through thick and thin.
In the end given the tone of her writing and her refusal to engage in the realities of her Mother's dementia, some of us had grave concerns for her Mother's safety.
As one of the people who offered support and eventually withdrew I'm saddened that you misunderstood what has taken place here.
My empathy, concern and compassion is for ML's Mother who is to my mind the truly vulnerable person here.
I am confused about your sister. On another thread you wrote that she's been guardian for 30 years!