parent documented monthly expense ( eletric, heat, ins, taxes,house maint, caretaker, legal fees ) leaves him with about $600 common sense will tell you that does not cover food and other small medical expenses, ( diapers, wipes, cream, asprins) which i pay a small amount towards a family member is questing where the $600 goes. i only save document receipts again common sense $600 goes quick in N Y im POA
As PoA, I maintain appropriate records and am handling his finances responsibly and in his best interest. I’m not going to provide ongoing detailed accountings to anyone outside of a legal requirement to do so, but I appreciate your concern for Dad."
You are not oblidged to give you siblings any financial information. You are his representative and its between u and him only.
I would be wary that it is a fishing expedition to see how much money your parent has and the root intention is a monetary gain on the siblings part. But I am a cynical person because I did encounter a dishonest person trying to gain financially with my uncle.
As POA I refuse to get into specifics with anyone. Even with my father and other uncle (his brother). If they dont like it they can use the court system. I always state my responsibility it to act in the best interest of Uncle. That is all.