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I found $600 in my mom's wallet, she'd been hiding it. Since she's advanced stage 7, I didn't think it was a good idea and deposited it in the bank. I left her $25 thinking she can't really count. Yesterday, I observed she was trying to hide the remaining money in the shower. I doubt she's realized anything and the hiding behavior is probably just normal dementia activity. Was thinking of taking the remaining funds and giving her play money so so she can feel secure. Has anyone done this? It was actually a suggestion of the live-in aide.

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If she is taking money out of her wallet and hiding it in places she will forget later, I would worry that she will one day look at her empty wallet and think she's been robbed. Placing phony money in the wallet might help her feel more secure, seeing that she has tangible money she can feel and count. And it gives her a creative activity - hiding it!
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With advanced stage 7 (dementia?), I would make sure she doesn't have access to any money.

Might be a good idea although I wonder if getting rid of her purse is a better idea - if she doesn't see it, likely she won't think about it.

It can't hurt to give her play $ although with advanced dementia, I presume that she doesn't remember moment by moment.

When she starts hiding depends (soiled) in the closet or elsewhere, then you have a more serious issue (once the real $ is out of the picture).

I presume that she is under 24/7 care wherein someone is watching her / observing behavior. Gena / Touch Matters
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Yes--you can buy realistic (enough) fake money on Amazon. My mom had Alzheimer's and putting the money in her wallet meant she didn't want to go to the bank all the time. This was when she'd still want to go out to eat--I'd just tell her she had paid last time so ''let me get the bill this time'' to keep her from trying to use it.
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She could have some credit cards - all expired.

My husband is in Stage 7 dementia. Here are the characteristics of that stage as measured by the Global Deterioration Scale (GDS):
Verbal Abilities Lost: Speech is limited to, at most, a few intelligible words, often reduced to grunting.
Loss of Motor Skills: Inability to walk or sit without support, often leading to being bedridden.
Functional Incontinence: Total loss of bladder and bowel control.
Physical Decline: Difficulty swallowing and eating, leading to weight loss or vulnerability to infections like pneumonia.
Personality Changes: Severe reduction in environmental interaction, though agitation or emotional shifts can occur. 

So exactly where is mom in Stage 7 dementia going to be spending this play money? At this stage, going out is pretty much not likely. Maybe set up a play store with a cute lil cash register and empty lil cereal boxes? Like in kindergarten? If so, that truly takes the cake! OMG, just sit her down in front of the TV and let her watch Little Madhouse on the Prairie.
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I see no problem in that. I doubt at Stage 7 she willbe out and about spending money.

The ottoman. When cleaning out a parents home you have to check everything. Don't get rid of anything until you make sure nothing is inside. Pockets of coats and clothing. My Aunt had a bookcase next to her chair where she hid her bingo winnings in books and music albums. When my cousin cleaned her house after death, she found 3k. The family was lucky that 40k was returned.
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TouchMatters 7 hours ago
I believe the issue isn't about going out and spending the money, it is about keeping her mother as calm as possible considering brain dysfunction.

Best to get rid of as many hiding places as is possible. Although w play $, it doesn't really matter. Hiding soiled depends is when it becomes more serious. A person with this level of brain dysfunction should never have had $600 available anyway . . . I wonder how / why that happened. Gena
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My friend's mom hid things all around her house. Most notable was the over $25,000 she'd stashed in the washing machine, somewhere between the tub and the frame.
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MTNester1 Jun 2, 2026
What lucky duck found that? It's not a likely place to hide money, but okay. My sister hid hers in books on the shelves.
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I have to ask why does she have any money at all?
If she accepts the "prop" money great.
The problem might be if she is out and she tries to spend it.
I also have to wonder if there is any other money hidden around the house that you are unaware of.
When it is time to clean out the house make sure you go through EVERYTHING in the house. (The live in aide may be doing that now.....just a thought)
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If she accepts the "Monopoly" money as real, give it a try. I would secure anything that is valuable, even jewelry and documents. I have read that they can also stash pills, dentures, hearing aids, keys, etc. I saw a news report once that a woman purchased an ottoman at an estate sale and after she got it home she found $40k cash stashed in it -- which she returned to the family (it was their elderly parents' furniture).
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firsttimer1 Jun 2, 2026
Not monopoly money. its stage prop money
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