Social worker called and says my mom has to be discharged home. I asked what home? She sold it. She said, to your house where she came from. I said I already discussed that my house is not safe for her and it was only temporary until her apartment opened. She said well you can look into senior living facilities for her. I said, no that is your job. I do not have POA. She said then I will have to get my supervisor involved. Any other suggestions?
The SW needs to work with Mom. Tajann has told them from day one that Mom cannot come back to her house.
It was like a game of hot potato after that, eventually she got her in a home where a couple took care of her and was paid for by the state.
Do not except responsibility bc they are just moving her out. Certainly help find her new long term accommodations.
Once you take her they will disappear, at least while they have her they will help find her a real place to live.
I have a feeling Tajann got strong armed into taking her Mom and now has her on her hands again.
Tajann has put great effort into being there for her mom and mom continually kicks her in the heart, tears her down and mind ---KS her.
How would you recommend that a one-way relationship be healed? Should Tajann let herself be destroyed so she has a relationship? Seriously, what do you recommend besides just being a doormat for someone that, obviously, doesn't have any love or care for anyone beyond herself?
Or are you one of those mothers?