My mother lives in Ohio. She is considered to be at level 2 in her AL facility. The levels go from 1-4, with 4 being the highest level of care. She gets 3 meals/day, housekeeping services, a nurse who is available 24-7 who also dispenses her medication. She also receives a bath twice a week. I do her laundry. She pays $3264.00/month. Is this rate about what to expect for AL facilities?
And I remember having a hard time trying to find heath insurance because I thought I had a wheat allergy.... thus it was a "pre-existing condition".... guess the insurance companies thought I would OD on a loaf of bread :P The ACA also put an end to that, too.
I started out saving money when I was five year old getting my very first savings account [back in 1951]. All my birthday money, Christmas and Easter money from relatives went into that account. Of course in the 1980's we had interest rates for savings accounts up around 15% so savings would really grow :)
Every state has a Medicaid program. Call you local senior center or nursing facility to find yours if you're having trouble. They will explain how to qualify. Although my mother was living with me they said I could apply for her as an independent household. Her assets had to be 'spent down' , in other words she had to spend away her money in order to qualify. Depends on which state you are in how this Spend Down goes. I'm in CA, which allows someone to give away 8,000 dollars a day. Not all states are like that. I was warned about a 5 year 'look back' so they can see if you're hiding it, but that didn't really happen here. It did happen somewhat to my cousin in WA. Start these proceeding immediately so you have the time you need to qualify. My mom was okayed for Medicaid for 4 months before she ever went into the nursing home to use it. Keep us posted and best of luck to you.