Assisted living finance director stated she believes court appointed attorney is mismanaging my families money. They are facing eviction! Attorney #3 has according to the director of finance of the memory care unit my father and mother reside is stating she can't get full payment or a straight answer from the guardian handling my parents affairs. I know for a fact they had more than enough to pay bill before the attorney removed my ability to see what she was doing. I'd reached out in a kind letter to her over a month ago yet heard nothing until the other day when she said they were facing eviction, This attorney also said she wasn't paying herself only bills for my parents. She had an estate sale didn't call me to let me know mad hardly noting there. The house is up for sale. I told her I would make up the difference from the trust fund. Then she sent me a bill for over 12,412.54 and stating there was more money than that owed. When I ask her how this could have happened she never answered only told me it had to be paid by tomorrow or face eviction. I told her I would call the finances advisor she told me that she didn't trust the attorney and that she was going to call Adult Protective Services after speaking to their attorney and the Assisted Living Director. Now the no will answer my emails or phone calls, expect the attorney in a panic sending over 12 emails yesterday. The attorney was blaming me all this time to the finance office saying she has to way for me to transfer money. When I explained how can I transfer money to an account I can't see not could I for months, nor was I given an account number. Something is terribly wrong here.
My friends tell me I've done more and been through more than they've ever heard possible now this. My friends tell me this is not my fault my parents never left me help blame me or their miserable elder life issues. Now I reported the attorney to Adult Protective services to get answers. Oh and this guardian didn't pay my folks live insurance policy either or months, had I not followed up on that, plus she never answered any questions about having paid it until I called the insurance company.
My emotional and physical health is waning I can't focus to find work. I am handing over my folks trust fund to the attorney that set it up if they will take it to deal with these vicious Virginia attorneys. I've not spoken to my family since for several months nor do I intend too since my father threatened to sue me then and my mother wouldn't speak to me. They don't deserve me, that I know now. Let all the attorneys steal whats left of their money I don't care I can't stop it or deal with any of this any longer. They are 88 and 90 my father is mean as h*ll but they both may out live me!
You certainly have my support to back right out after you have done what you can. This has been a dog's breakfast from day 1.
" I can't stop it or deal with any of this any longer" Right. Look after yourself. You have been under a great deal of stress from your crazy parents. More hugs (((((((((((zoo)))))))))
No, they don't deserve you. And you don't deserve this kind of stress.(((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))
I hope everyone has a good day, I'm going to try and forget about all this till I have to pick it up again tomorrow! Thanks again you guys! (((((((( Hugs)))))))) too!
I understand your frustration Zoo!