My husband has dementia. When I suffered another compression fracture last year, he moved to a memory care home. Before he moved, he was walking. He could not bring his exercise bike and now can no longer walk. We are now paying for his room plus the rate for maximum care, which includes a two-person transfer. Two months ago, the facility started using a mechanical lift to move him between bed and wheelchair. Hospice supplied the mechanical lift. Today, my bill included an unexpected charge for using the lift for two months at $55/day. Is this routine?
I found these practices to be common in corporate owned ALs and MCs....they were chomping at the bit to find reasons to plump up the monthly fees, which is one reason I took my folks out of Brookdale. They drove me insane with their convoluted billing schemes and chronic mistakes! Going over a bill with a fine tooth comb every month was not my idea of a good time.
I'd argue this extra charge if it were me. As I said, the least they should've done, in the name of common decency and professionalism, was to inform you of a such a large extra charge of $3300 before adding it to your bill.
Good luck.
Maybe that charge is because of that. Since hospice is involved, the administration is letting your Mom stay. The extra charge may be for that extra person involved in lifting her.
Equipment is generally used in Skilled Nursing facilities.
But check the area where you live. there may be different codes I know where I am the only facility that is allowed to use equipment is Skilled Nursing.
I also include Rehab with the Skilled Nursing.
I do know of a facility where they were able to use equipment but only if the resident was mobile when they entered the facility.
In your case I would ask what the extra $55.00 a day fee is.
It may be because it takes 2 people to transfer.
The facility should not be charging you for the equipment the only thing that they might charge you for would be the extra staff.
And they should not be billing you in advance for a fee or service that has not yet been provided.
I would discuss this with the administration at your memory care.
As you may know, most MC facilities and ALF facilities are independent businesses with their own rules and regulations. Being on the highest level of care I would think would already include the highest level cost and cannot imagine another 55 a day to use a life which is to be honest a boon and an ease for the caregivers, not extra work.
I wish you good luck.
I remember when my mom was in MC and she had increased incontinence care and laundry her bill increased $800 for one year only.
Think of the alternative. If you kept your loved one at home, could you do ALL that is required to their care without missing something, not being able to complete the task, not having the space for equipment, or strength to help him/her.
My husband was 6'2", 200+, and I am little less than 5 ft, 150 lbs. I could not lift him, maneuver him, or bathe him safely. I th ink before people marry they should be quizzed to the effect, can you do th is or that at age 60 for your spouse if he/she got incapacitated!!! Wouldn't that be something on the marriage license.
We do the bests we can at the age we are at the time, and the situation is exactly why there is so much talk throughout our lives about saving for old age. It is not cheap for equipment or no $$ help from society or government. I learned from a very young age when my father died at age 34, , I eldest of 4 at 16, in a brand new house my dad built himself, with heavy mortgage (for the time of century, absolutely no life insurance ('cuz nothing's going to happen to me "f rom him or mortgage insurance on this brand new house. My mother begged him to get insurances, but no, nothing's going to happen to me was always the answer. She finally convinced him it was necessary, they got an appointment for Friday, and on Tuesday or Wednesday, he died of a heart attack, My Mom with 5 kids to support, and I eldest at 16. No walk in a park for any of us. We all pitched in to care for a little 2 yr old before and after school while Mom found a job with no experience, never worked before, to pay for the mortgage that my Dad insisted they didn't need mortogage insurance that he was young and was not going to die . He died a year later at age 34 of a heart attack.
So, the write above knows what she can afford or not, . Outsiders know nothing about circumstances, so say what they feel is appropriate. No one knew my Dad didn't want to buy new home insurance, life insurance, only car insurance. His words, Nothing is going to happen to me. Lived in his new house just over a year, age 34. I've heard it all, but I think my family's situation was an example of "buy the insurance", you never know what can happen. I was married less than a week when I made an appointment with an insurer to purchase life for my new soldier husband. H e said he couldn't afford it. I saved money during my bachelorette years, so paid the first premium. I wasn't taking any chances on my soldier husband. Nuff said. One never knows what is planned for us. My father's death was a big bam for my Mom, as he refused to buy mortgage and life insurance. She set up an appointment to do both, but he died a week before the meeting. We are not promised tomorrow
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