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Same response as AlvaDeer. I really don't understand the issues: Whose paycheck, and from whom? Who pays you to care for him? What's the relevance of his feeling that it's a joint paycheck?
ETA: just saw your response to Alva. Who's paying you? My interpretation would be that it's your paycheck, not his. You're doing the work, right? Is he expecting to share the paycheck?
When I pay my lawn contractor, it's his money b/c he does the work. I'm not entitled to share just because I provide the lawn.
How the two of you choose to handle bill payments etc, if you live together is another thing.
Things that would give more clarity to your question: Who pays you? Where do you live? If you live together, who owns the home or pays the rent? How are utilities and food costs handled?
This is confusing. Does he pay you and feels like he can have the cake and eat it too? Or do you work for an agency? Is he a vet and benefits are paying your salary?
It doesn’t even matter really. This is your money that you are receiving for services rendered. Have you shared it so now he expects it? Where is his money?
Are you living there? Does he need you to chip in for utilities, groceries, and other expenses?
We need more information. Can you give more details please?
I really kind of see where she is coming from. Couples usually share payroll checks in someway so you being paid is taking place of that payroll check.
Do you share a bank acct? Have you always split things down the middle and had separate accts or pay all bills from one acct?
If u have separate accts and split the bills and what is left over is yours to spend as u wish, then NO the money is not hers.
If you have an acct together, mingle your money together and pay bills out of that acct, taking out spending money for you both, then YES she shares in the money.
If her illness is causing her not to be able to work then if she hasn't she needs to sign up for short term disability. If she has and its depleted, then she should go, if she can, to Social Services to see what type of help she can get thru them.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
ETA: just saw your response to Alva. Who's paying you? My interpretation would be that it's your paycheck, not his. You're doing the work, right? Is he expecting to share the paycheck?
When I pay my lawn contractor, it's his money b/c he does the work. I'm not entitled to share just because I provide the lawn.
Be on guard; this doesn't sound right.
What are the facts?
How the two of you choose to handle bill payments etc, if you live together is another thing.
Things that would give more clarity to your question:
Who pays you?
Where do you live?
If you live together, who owns the home or pays the rent?
How are utilities and food costs handled?
It doesn’t even matter really. This is your money that you are receiving for services rendered. Have you shared it so now he expects it? Where is his money?
Are you living there? Does he need you to chip in for utilities, groceries, and other expenses?
We need more information. Can you give more details please?
Do you share a bank acct? Have you always split things down the middle and had separate accts or pay all bills from one acct?
If u have separate accts and split the bills and what is left over is yours to spend as u wish, then NO the money is not hers.
If you have an acct together, mingle your money together and pay bills out of that acct, taking out spending money for you both, then YES she shares in the money.
If her illness is causing her not to be able to work then if she hasn't she needs to sign up for short term disability. If she has and its depleted, then she should go, if she can, to Social Services to see what type of help she can get thru them.