Mom died about a month ago and I just found out today that she had a partial prolapsed stomach that I knew nothing about as well as diverticulosis. Reading her medical records I am finding things that I was never told. She complained of pain on her right side and we thought it was broken ribs from her fall. Now I wonder if it was the prolapsed stomach.
When my youngest daughter died , I read & reread her autopsy reports & even shared it with several physicians that I know. We all came up with no reason for her to have died. I had to let it go because I was driving myself nuts with, "...what does this mean ..." stuff & questions. She is in Spirit, as my other daughter is too. NOTHING WILL CHANGE THAT & IT IS PAST. I choose to stay in the present....God's speed.
Dr.'s write in shorthand, they use universal medical abbreviations that are only for diagnostic purposes. Have you looked up "prolapsed" online? If you have then you know there is no such thing as a prolapsed stomach. Who knows what the Dr. meant when he wrote that?
There's no peace to be found by going through your mom's medical records.
“Prolapsed of the stomach is a very common condition, said to exist in at fleets seven out of ten women and a considerable number of men. It is due much to the same causes as result in dilatation, but other causes are rapid loss of weight, weight-lifting or other straining activities, and, in women, to the frequent bearing of children. There may be no symptoms of this condition or there may be uneasiness or any degree of dyspepsia dympyomd. All of these are relieved upon reclining.”
hindustanlink/doctortex/doctor/stomach_disease.htm
“Diverticulosis happens when pouches (diverticula) form in the wall of the colon. If these pouches get inflamed or infected, it is called diverticulitis. Diverticulitis can be very painful.
“Doctors aren't sure what causes diverticula in the colon (diverticulosis). But they think that a low-fiber diet may play a role. Without fiber to add bulk to the stool, the colon has to work harder than normal to push the stool forward. The pressure from this may cause pouches to form in weak spots along the colon.
Diverticulitis happens when feces get trapped in the pouches (diverticula). This allows bacteria to grow in the pouches. This can lead to inflammation or infection.”
webmd/digestive-disorders/tc/diverticulitis-topic-overview
I share your grief in losing your mother. Blessings to you.
Diverticulosis is also common. I've known one woman who said she had pain from it, but others may not even be aware they have it. I would expect the pain from this to be most often on the lower left side -- depends on where the pouches are. I do not think diverticulosis contributed to her death.
I know you are full of "why" did this happen. I went through my father's records, too. They gave me sympathy for things that he went through. In my father's case I came to the conclusion that his body had worn out. There was not an organ in his body that was not failing. Which thing caused his death would have been hard to figure out, since all of his organs were dying.
How old was your mother? Was there an exact cause of death given? or had her body worn out?